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 in response to solarbaby...   wow,great story,and that probably was the best christmas ever,to you,and one you will always treasure,thank you for sharing!

 in response to mommamooie...   Hi without sounding rude..your rent is $1200?? where do you live ny? I live in pa and the most rent I ever paid was $600! can you find a cheaper place?

Okay,it is that time of year again,no I am not here,talking about,Christmas or any other holiday...

It is Oct. National Domestic Violence Awarness month,everyone talks about Breast cancer month,and do not get me wrong,I am behind that 100%,but DV seems to be put on the back burner,for sharing the same month.

Both causes,should be thought of 12 months a year,anyway..as many of you know,I am on here 24/7 playing my games,yes I am very addicted,but if that is the only thing I am addicted to,thank God!

Not many people really,know the real me...so today,I am here to be 100% honest with you,with myself...

You see,im proud to be addicted to my games,because 12 years ago,it was a different story,I was a full blown addict.I am proud to be clean 12 and counting years.. 

Thank you Lord Jesus,and thank you my wonderful children,for keeping me clean,every single day,because ,each and everyone of you are ,so worth it!

Now back to the subject,I am also proud to say,I am a domestic violence survivor,I was married 13 years,to a very,very abusive man.the bruises heal,the mental abuse stays a lifetime.if you are reading this,and are in the same situation,please,please just get out...but,I have no place to go,no money,no family,etc...are just excuses,do it for your children,do it for yourself! leave your stuff,items can be replaces,your life cant.

Being hit just one time,will be followed by more,the "where were you?' take that as a sign,jealous,telling you what you can and cant do,he takes away your friends,your family,your self-esteem. Just get out!

If you or someone you know,is being abused,dont turn your back,get involved,on an average day ,3 woman die,every single day,at the hands of their boyfriends,husbands,etc..men,just like woman are abused,any age,any race..

THINK OF STAYING,IS CHILD ABUSE TO YOUR CHILD/CHILDREN... but he changed...1-3 % can change,do you want to play that odds?you are one punch,from being killed.

http://www.georgiapower.com/ hi this link has all the help you need,for heating,churches too. LIHEAP 1-800-869-1150 will help,share 770-441-6200 and united way too...dial 211 good luck

as a domestic violence survivor,I speak out from my history of abuse,I was married to a very violent man,for 13 years,I know ,why did I stay? hwat took me so long to leave? etc...

but,the main thing is I am here today,because i finally,woke up,and got out. are pfas enough? hell no,how many woman die,with an order of protection in her pocket?

in all of those years,calling the police,he never once was arrested,the one time he was,no jail time,at all.that shows these cowards ,that they can get away with it,over and over again.

I will never,ever let someone control me again,hurt me,in any way,abuse me mentally or physically...I am worth more than that,and I deserve better than that.

just because your married,does not mean,your husband/or wife owns you..you are your own person. I do,also think,if you stay in that situation,it is considered child abuse...children,should never see that,break the cycle now,people.

if you or someone you know,is being abused,dont look the other way,tomorrow ,will be to late....respect yourself,love yourself,first...just thinking out loud here....

Happy New Year !! I won a car,it is going to be a great 2012!!  you can get a car too! f.c.c  free charity cars,donate cars,for the needy,I had no way to get to the store for groceries,I have not been to my dr. in more than 6 months! so I have not been taking my much needed medicine! now I  can have my life back! I can bring my girls to the store,the museum,on trips!! thank you f.c.c   you sign up,and vote for people,when you reach 100 votes,you apply for a car,now,dont quit!!!  failure is another word for quitting! remember that,it did take me 6 months,but I got one! it took that long because you are counting on people to donate their old car,in your state,so premote!!! vote & premote! the 100 votes you can get on the first day,when i was done i had 25,000 votes,but if i gave up,i would of never recieved the car,some people get a car in one week,it all depends,on the area and your story,so go sign up! and put theagirls25  in the box,who told you about it! thank you and happy new year! charlotte